The Curse of the Lost Doll
Requirements:
1) A public space with multiple people in it.
2) a stuffed animal, doll, action figure, celebrity cut-out or something similar
3) Paper, pen and tape, or a ribbon and pen.
You’re walking in a park, or by the riverfront, or on a sidewalk, or even the cafeteria, bookstore or coffee shop. On the ground in front of you is a small teddy bear with a ribbon and a large tag, just lying on it’s side by the grass (or dock or condiment bar or…). Do you pick it up or walk on? You look around to see various people going about there day, but no obvious sign of a child who’s lost their toy. You’re curious, so you pick it up. The tag says:
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Help me!
I’ve gotten separated from my owner and really want to get back home. I’m hoping you can help me. But it’s going to be challenging. You see, an evil wizard put a spell on my owner and I so that we won’t recognize each other. I know we’re not too far from each other — I can sense it — but if my owner sees me or you directly ask about me, then the curse gets worse and we won’t ever find each other. Instead, you have to keep me hidden and ask each person you find “What do you deeply love?” Let them answer and you’ll know if you’ve found my owner. If not, then move on or enlist their help. Or just keep talking about what they deeply love, which is bound to be interesting. If you can’t find my owner, please leave me here.
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and the game begins….
This game is simple to prepare, can start with a single person and can get lots of people talking to each other. It’s designed to get strangers in public places to talk to each other as a starting point for building community connections, while also having fun. It’s a sure conversation starter and may even get strangers to work together on a common goal. For explaining things, I’ll just say “the doll”, but know that this could refer to any inanimate creature or person. The “owner”, the person who started the game, should follow these basic guidelines to run the game:
1) Get the doll — The doll may just get taken, so be willing to part with it. Of course, if it does, well, you’ve just made someone very happy and probably still given them an interesting conversation piece. Or maybe they’re off asking everyone they meet for the next 5 years “What do you deeply love?” – so the game’s still a success!
2) Prepare the doll — obviously there’s lots of flexibility here – as long as the doll and the note are both obvious to a passerby and they’re not likely to get separated easily.
3) Choose a location for the game — I recommend a place where line of sight will enable the seeker to see between 5 and 15 people or small groups of people. Any fewer and the game’s likely to be over too fast. Any more and the task is likely to seem too daunting. Not having line of sight is only likely to work if the game’s being played in a confined area (think a bookstore with its various shelves, or an office with various cubicles.)
4) Placing the doll — This is tricky in a public area. If people are already there, they may well see you place the doll and then point the future seeker right to you, or just bring you the doll themselves. Either be first to a location, wait until it’s cleared up some, or find a sneaky way to drop/place the doll where you want it without people noticing. Note that depending on your location, this may effect your choice of doll. That 4 foot stuffed dog is going to be hard to anonymously place at your work cafeteria.
5) Choose a location for yourself — It’s recommended that you stay in line of sight for the game. Partly so that you sneak an occasional peak in that direction (though see the instructions in 6 below), possibly overhear other conversations (fun!), and also remain aware if something unexpected goes wrong.
6) Act casual! — Once the doll is place, you have to act like you aren’t aware of it. This may be the hardest part of the game! If you watch it constantly, you’re likely to give yourself away and end the game quicker than desirable. If you’re just looking in someone’s general direction, they’re more likely to come talk to you than to someone who’s looking another direction or in the middle of an activity.
It’s more complicated, but you could set up a secret video camera somewhere to try to capture more of what’s going on while you’re not watching, but this faces the same problems (but much more so) mentioned in 4 above.
7) Be ready to answer — Make sure you’ve planned what you’ll do when the seeker asks you “What do you deeply love?”. Your answer just has to let the person know that they’ve reached their goal. Here are three possible responses:
a) “I deeply love that you’re playing this game! You won!”
b) “I really love a dear friend of mine that I haven’t seen for a long time. He has beautiful blue eyes, a lovely smile, and a great fashion sense. He’s also about 8″ tall and covered in red fur.”
c) “Nothing.Not since I lost my favorite doll.”
They’ve won! — If the person has found you, hey’ve won! If you’re using an answer like b) or c) above, just be aware that the seeker might know they’ve found you, but be confused about whether they can tell you or show you at that point. You might let them squirm or improvise, but don’t push it. Really – they’ve found you at this point and are supposed to have won.
You may want to consider giving them a prize. Winning may be enough. One nice idea is to then give them the doll as a memento.
9) Record — you may want to ask the person some questions and capture what they learned. Asking what people deeply love is kind of fascinating. You can write it down. You can even keep a little notebook for all of your Curse of the Love Doll games — it’d be a great way to keep the conversation going to show the person the results from previous games.
Also, this is a great way to meet someone right there. They’re likely to wonder about why you’re doing this. Tell them about Gameful and the Gameful Challenge “Strangers No More” and why this is good for the world. Face it, this is someone who stopped their day to take care of a doll and then went around asking strangers about what they deeply loved — this likely to be a great person to meet!
And if you record results, let me know! Send me details at lovedollcurse -at- gmail.com.
Final note — lots of variations are possible here. I’ve listed a few, but if you like these, or make up others, please let me know at lovedollcurse -at- gmail.com.
a) Make a different story – the evil curse was just an easy one to fit on a small card without having to explain much.
b) Make the seeker ask a different question.
c) Get others in on the game – You could plant a few friends in the area to provide part of a clue, which the person has to puzzle together to find you. This might work well if you’re out of the line of sight, but your friends aren’t. Obviously, the story will probably need to give them some clue that there’s more going on.
d) Bigger location – You could try this on a larger scale in several ways. One is to play the game in a bigger location. The person finding the doll has to walk (or even bike?) over a wider area to find you. This might solve the issue of how to place the doll without being seen, but it raises a host of other issues. Obviously the note needs to be tailored to the challenge. How do they travel farther, but still have enough focus to realistically find you? In a small town downtown, you could give instructions to step into each storefront on the street. Perhaps in that case, they have to walk in and say “I’m feeling lucky! Is anyone in here feeling lucky?” or something… Just remember that the point is to actually meet people and make connections.
e) More people, more dolls – This could be fun at an outdoor festival, concert or streetshow. This variation obviously ignores the 5-15 people in sight range rule. To make up for that, plan to drop a bunch of dolls around the area. Doing this anonymously is, even more than before, a challenge, but I’m sure you’re up for it! Remove the instruction about not being able to show the doll to you. In this case, the seekers might have a hard time finding you — but they’re very likely to find other people who’ve found other dolls and then some interesting conversations’ll start. Perhaps in this setting folks are really likely to enlist a large body of others to join in and ask the question. If the festival’s really big enough, maybe you can have some kind of visual clue that you wear to help. For example, if the dolls all have a bright red ribbon around their necks that link to the tag, then maybe you wear a bright red ribbon around your neck too.
That’s all. Have fun! And let me know how it went at: lovedollcurse -at- gmail.com






Haha I also thought of sometihng similar, drew
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